Why Men Love Bitches
I hear there’s a book with this title.
I’ve not read it but I love the whole concept of bringing your inner bitch out to play!
However let’s get clear what I mean by the kind of bitch that gets the great guys pursuing her for a loving connected forever relationship….
She is not…The entitled, wounded, princess bitch: The stroppy-back stabbing-passive aggressive-gossipy-‘won’t take responsibility’- entitled-princess bitch…. who thinks that the world and men owe her.
This kind of woman feels like drama to a man,
V’S what she actually is….
The warm, strong, feminine bitch
The woman who knows what she wants.
She can say no when she means no, and yes when she means yes.
She expresses her needs, wants and boundaries clearly and with warmth, and doesn’t let her fear of upseting or disappointing a man stop her speaking up. (We cover how to do this, step by step in the Feminine Communication Masterclass)
She’ll always disappoint a man before she disappoints herself.
She knows how to receive and knows she’s worthy of love and attention.
Everything about this woman is absolutely desirable and magnetic to a man.
He knows where he is with her.
What’s going on inside of her- (her feelings, emotions, her ‘wants’)…. match her actions and words on the outside.
Wow! This totally changes the whole energy of the word bitch!
This term isn’t for everyone.
Maybe inner Queen, Siren, or Baddass.
But for those of us who’ve had a lifetime of people pleasing, fearing upsetting men and squashing our own deep desires…… Letting your inner (warm, strong, feminine) bitch out to play can feel exhilarating, empowering and liberating.
She can help you speak up…..she can help you focus on what you want rather than worrying what other people will think of you.
She can help you say no to unavailable or cold men and YES to the loving, kind, commitment ready man who you can laugh with and love with for the rest of your life :)
She can be your biggest ally!
Love Naomie
P.S If you struggle to speak up with men and want to share your feelings with grace and ease then the Feminine Communication Masterclass will be awesome for you! I’m proud of this training.. you’ll love it :)