Can You Make Him Addicted To You?
“Naomie how can I get him addicted to me so he’ll chase me forever?”
This has been asked of me many times and is a hot search topic on youtube.
(You can watch my recent YouTube video here)
To me, addiction is about all about ME, filling a hole inside of ME, what can you GIVE ME that makes me complete?
And chasing has an urgency about it, “I’m going to chase you until I get what I want”… and then what?
What happens when he catches you?
I get the horrid feeling I’d need to keep running from a man who needs to chase... just incase he stops chasing me once I open and soften into the relationship.
Ever had that experience?
A man is hot for you, doing and saying all the right things… you’re a woman who takes time to open her heart… and when you do decide to open up and trust him he starts to pull away.
This chaser man loves the thrill of the chase but the independence drive is so strong in him that he retreats at the sniff of anything more emotionally intimate.
I’d prefer to teach you to be a woman a man wants to pursue forever.
Who feels drawn to you rather than addicted?
Who wants to win your heart every day of your lives together?
And all you need to be is your feminine, receptive self… in fact, more yourself than you’ve probably ever dared to be with a man.
Learning to soften into my vulnerable, feminine energy was one of the most profoundly simple and love-altering things I learned to do.
Want access to a simple feminine energy moment?
As you go through your day...remind yourself to ‘Come back to your senses’ Literally…. What can I smell? notice the colours in the room, how does the air feel on my skin?
Your senses are right here and right now.
Your feminine energy is being present with whatever is going on inside of you right here and right now.
Warmest Love to your beautiful feminine souls.
Naomie