Hey! I’m
NAOMIE
Your Certified Dating and Relationship Coach, and Rori Raye Master Coach Teacher
My Story
10 years ago, my marriage and my whole world fell apart when my husband and the father of our two kids said to me:
“ I can’t do anything to make you happy.”
He was right, his words hit me like a brick in the face, I realised I was struggling in love and always had been.
I was never satisfied and I was criticising him… passing it off as me expressing myself.
It felt awful to face and it took a shock like this to make me admit I didn’t know how to love or even let someone love me.
I knew I needed help and I went on a search to find ease with love. I enrolled on relationship programs, read everything, had 1-2-1 coaching and with the right trusted-guides, I found what I had been seeking all along: Me.
Today, though I’m no longer in that marriage, I do know how to love myself and another with deep authenticity. I’ve a new relationship with love and it’s alive, playful, exhilarating and, here’s the delight, has nothing really to do with another person.
The good news is that I now know with every cell in my body that a new paradigm of relationship does exist, it’s not a pipe dream and I know, when you discover it, love becomes easy.
There’s no direct map. Every journey is different. Following the old way we were taught to attract love and be in relationship with another human; is actually why we get stuck in the first place.
This way of working works for anyone who is willing.
I promise you.
I’m here to guide you to those A-HA moments
Once you decide to take the call into the new paradigm of love and relationships, you will see with ‘a-ha after a-ha’ how your story of love has played out in your life. It is so freeing, healing and liberating to unravel your energy from the old and put that energy into something new. Here are some of ‘a-ha’s’ I had in my personal story-shift:
When I thought I was expressing my feelings, I was actually blaming, criticising and putting him down. This made him want to cherish and care for me LESS.
I’d learned to be 'strong' on the outside to protect the vulnerable girl inside of me who's terrified of being forgotten and abandoned. That fearful part of me was like a 'rejection detective' looking for evidence that I would be let-down or forgotten. I became controlling, over-functioning, critical and prickly which pushed him away even more. And inside, I felt hurt and alone, craving closeness and love.
Attraction does not equal a great relationship, yet I put a lot of my love story into this.
The most vulnerable part of me makes me loveable, yet it was the thing I would do anything to keep safe, protected and hidden from view.
If you’re ready to chat, take up your free call
About You
You’re a person who, up until now has felt unable to be successful or ‘lucky in love’.
Whoever you are, whatever your past, I believe you deserve to be loved like never before.
It’s your right to love and be loved. I don’t know you. I don’t know your unique love story, but at some level I do know you because I too had lost all hope in love.
My experience with hundreds of women tells me that you may identify with some of the following:
You’re here because you’re feeling sad, stuck, lost or hurt by relationships, love, dating and men.
You do the same things again and again, but nothing changes and you’re left wondering if 'it’s' ever going to happen for you.
You’ve lost hope of attracting the kind of love you feel you want.
You could be in a relationship now, but it’s filled with disconnection and unhappiness.
Life and love feels SO serious; there are lots of heavy conversations, so much focus on fixing the relationship, and very little fun. You’re considering ending the relationship.
You’re desperate for a man to love you in a way that you feel like you’re his number one girl, the love of his life, the most beautiful woman in his world.
You’ve had glimmers of this in the beginning of relationships, but it soon drifts into the same pattern of disconnection.
Wherever you find yourself at this point, schedule your no obligation call with me for free, and see if something can shift for you:
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